Al Weisel

The 10 Essential Gay Male Songs

By Al Weisel
CDNOW Movies Editor

Popular music of the last century has shocked many generations of parents with its sexual taboo smashing, but when it comes to homosexuality, especially gay male sexuality, it has always been oddly puritanical. Same-sex relationships were a common subject in the blues, especially for lesbian performers but pop and rock have treated homosexuality as the love that dare not sing out. Gay music consisted largely of lip-synced torch songs or straight pop hits like Bing Crosby's "My Buddy" sung with a wink.

Rock performers turned out to be as close-minded as their parents, and it wasn't until the 1970s, with the advent of gender-bending glam rock, that the closet doors began to crack open. David Bowie and Elton John proclaimed their bisexuality (though they later reneged). Disco, which was born in gay clubs, soon became all the rage, but most people had no idea what those Village People were really singing about.

Attitudes about gays began to change in the 1980s, but pop music was slow to catch up. Such stars as Morrissey, Michael Stipe, and George Michael dodged questions about their sexuality for years. In rap, virulent homophobia became so acceptable that even by 2000 critics shrugged off rants about gays in Eminem's Marshall Mathers LP (which ironically has more references to gay sex than possibly any record ever made). But there have been some bright spots. The songs below represent those rare moments when performers were unafraid to sing about gay life openly and without apology.


1. Bronski Beat: "Smalltown Boy"
Jimmy Somerville's tale of a young gay man fleeing his intolerant small-town parents for the big city movingly summed up the life stories of a whole generation of gay men. Sung in a defiant falsetto to a propulsive disco beat, "Smalltown Boy," and the 1983 album it came from, Bronski Beat's Age of Consent, became the soundtrack for a new wave of gay activism spurred to action by the AIDS crisis.
Bronski Beat : Age of Consent

2. Tom Robinson: "Glad to Be Gay"
Most punk rockers look like poseurs next to Tom Robinson, who truly didn't mind the bollocks when he composed this angry, in-your-face gay anthem at a time when being gay could easily get you beaten up or even killed. While this 1978 song may seem dated to some modern listeners who grew up in more tolerant times, its horrifying accounts of gay bashings punctuated by the triumphant/ironic chorus, "Sing if you're glad to be gay," is still incredibly powerful.
Tom Robinson : Rising Free: The Very Best of the Tom Robinson Band

3. The Kinks: "Lola"
The surprising thing about the Kinks' greatest hit, 1970's "Lola," is not that the title character turns out to be a man (which is hinted at throughout the song), but that the male narrator doesn't seem to care one whit and, in fact, seems perfectly happy with the gender of his new love. With clever lyrics, a catchy melody, and a sing-along chorus, Ray Davies managed to seduce millions of unsuspecting listeners into embracing the most affirmative expression of gay love ever to grace top 40 radio.
Kinks : Lola vs. the Powerman & the Money-Go-Round

4. David Bowie: "Lady Stardust"
Although David Bowie would don and doff many masks throughout his career, it was his persona as the androgynous alien rock star Ziggy Stardust that resulted in his masterpiece. The songs on The Rise and Fall of Ziggy Stardust, such as "Lady Stardust," remain classics of gender-twisting pop music. That same year Bowie would produce Lou Reed's Transformer, whose left-field top 40 hit "Walk on the Wild Side" contained an explicit reference to gay sex that famously went over the head of many an AM-radio listener.
David Bowie : The Rise and Fall of Ziggy Stardust and the Spiders from Mars

5. Bruce Springsteen: "Streets of Philadelphia"
Even as AIDS felled such pop stars as Queen's Freddie Mercury, the B-52's Ricky Wilson, and Liberace, it was still a subject that most performers were reluctant to broach until Bruce Springsteen came along. Like the film whose soundtrack this song was written for, Philadelphia, starring everyman actor Tom Hanks, Springsteen helped Middle America see the human side of a disease that had disproportionately affected gays before becoming a scourge of heterosexual populations in such places as Africa.
Bruce Springsteen : Philadelphia Soundtrack

6. Magnetic Fields: "Papa Was a Rodeo"
Not all gay men are urban hairdressers who swoon at Judy Garland (not that there's anything wrong with that) as this Magnetic Fields' song from Stephin Merritt's epic gender-bashing exploration of varied forms of love, straight and gay, reminds us. "Papa Was a Rodeo" is an after-hours country saloon song about a gay man who "could rope a steer" and for whom "home was anywhere with diesel gas, love was a trucker's hand," who finds a kindred spirit without having to run away to the big city.
Magnetic Fields : 69 Love Songs Box Set

7. Rufus Wainwright: "Danny Boy"
Rufus Wainwright comes from a new generation of gay men for whom being gay is no big deal. "Danny Boy" is one of several songs from the eponymous debut of the openly gay son of folk singers Loudon Wainwright III and Kate McGarrigle that talk about his life and loves in way that was unimaginable for a gay songwriter even a decade ago, though it's hard to believe this Gap ad model has ever suffered the unrequited love he sings about here.
Rufus Wainwright : Rufus Wainwright

8. Willie Colon: "El Gran Varón"
Many Latino radio stations refused to play "El Gran Varón (The Great Man)," a wrenching song about a transvestite, rejected by his family, dying alone of AIDS, when it was released in 1989 on Altos Secretos (Top Secrets). But it became one of Willie Colón's biggest hits anyway. To understand just what the politically active salsa star was going up against when he released this blistering critique of Latin machismo, which was also covered by Rubén Blades, one only has to look at how many in the Latino community still deny that the death of Colon's longtime collaborator, Hector Lavoe, in 1993 was caused by AIDS.
Willie Colon : Coleccion De Oro

9. Rod Stewart: "The Killing of Georgie, Part 1 & 2"
Though Rod Stewart is known primarily for the sexual frivolity of such songs as "Da Ya Think I'm Sexy?" and "Hot Legs," this song from A Night on the Town was a remarkable departure. It's a beautifully told and heartrending tale of a man who finds freedom to be himself in New York only to be savagely murdered by gay bashers.
Rod Stewart : Night On The Town

10. Pet Shop Boys: "Go West"
Virtually every Pet Shop Boys album has songs that deal wittily and evocatively with gay life, from 1986's Please to 2002's Release, with its hilarious fantasy about a gay tryst with Eminem, "The Night I Fell in Love." But Neal Tennant and Chris Lowe's 1993 cover of the Village People's "Go West" brings the history of late 20th-century gay pop music full circle, deepening this light-hearted, 1979, pre-AIDS tale of hope for the future with the knowledge of the tragic losses and hard-fought triumphs that occurred in the intervening years.
Pet Shop Boys : Very

Al Weisel is the co-author, with Larry Frascella, of Live Fast, Die Young: The Wild Ride of Making Rebel Without a Cause, being published in October 2005.

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